Friday, March 28, 2008

Easter Projects

This is a picture of the projects Jake and I complete the week of Easter. Judd did make one of the palm branches at the top. It was hard to get him to stop eating the tissue paper, but he had fun. 
We started on Palm Sunday and did various activities throughout the week. We also read Benjamin's Box and hunted the Resurrection Eggs throughout the week. He loved finding the eggs and discussing what was in each one. Then on Sunday morning we made Resurrection rolls. They were yummy!


Here are a few of the questions Jake asked me while we were making the cross picture:
Mommy, why did that man on the other cross make a bad decision and not want to go to heaven with Jesus? 
Mommy, if those men beside Jesus had to die because they did bad things then why did Jesus have to die if He never did anything bad? 
This one will make you laugh:
"Mommy, does Jesus and Baby Trey live in your heart?"
"No sir, just Jesus lives in my heart. Baby Trey is in my belly."
"Oh!"


Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter 2008

This week we have been celebrating Easter and teaching Jake why this day is so important. I will post pictures of our projects a little later, but here are some pictures of the boys in their Easter outfits.

We had a great day at church and the preacher was awesome! I am so thankful we have a Risen Savior!
Happy Easter!












Wednesday, March 19, 2008

36 weeks and 29 years

Today is a very special day. It's my birthday and I am also 36 weeks. I had a great birthday. Jim surprised me with an awesome birthday present. He bought me a new camera. He bought me a Nikon D40. It is really great, but I have a lot to learn in order to use it the way I would like. I have a great husband!

I also had a doctors appointment today. He said that Baby Girl is in position and that I am 1 cm and 50%. She is progressing, but not too fast which is fine with us.


These are a few test pictures taken today with my new camera. I am excited! It just so happens that Jim took all of these. Maybe he is the photographer in the family?!?!


Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Silly Boys

Here are a few of the boys silly faces. Jake started making us laugh last night at dinner so that explains the blueberry and spaghetti faces.


Are we really adding a girl to this wild world of boys!

Is Spring Near?

It has been 75 degrees here the past few days so I wanted to get some outside pictures of the boys. We have been sick all Winter so we have very few pictures of the last few months.

We went to the playground at the church today and that is where most of them were taken. The others were taken at our house.
Enjoy!





Thursday, March 13, 2008

Speaking with Grace

The past few months I have caught myself being a mom that is frustrating and raising my voice at the boys to get them to obey. We spend a lot of time trying to train them to "obey the first time with a happy heart" and it is very frustrating when Jake obeys in action but then proceeds to whine or cry while "obeying." You see we define obedience as the complete act "obey the first time with a happy heart" not just action. Life has also gotten interested as Judd is really starting to test us and we are training him to obey also. Yes, many days I feel like I am correcting them all day whether it is their actions or their attitude, (their heart).

I have prayed that God would show me areas specifically how I can be a better mom. He has been answering my prayers more than I would like in one specific area, speaking with grace. The Holy Spirit has convicting me as I yell, fuss, whine, or beg my boys to listen and obey. So yesterday I was praying that my speech would be pleasing to Him and then I read this verse:

Let your speech always be seasoned with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person. Col 4:6

I find that I try VERY hard to speak with grace to Jim and even others, but so many times I "lose it" with the boys. I know that more hurtful words are spoken when I am angry or frustrated than at any other time. I don't feel that my words are nearly as hurtful as the tone in which I speak. Many times see my tone and reactions imitated through Jake when he is trying to communicate with Judd. This is when the Holy Spirit gently nudges my heart and reminds me that if I want my children to know Jesus, I must be Jesus to them. I must speak gently to them, but in order to do that I need to spend more time with Him. I need to be closer to Him so that I will know how He would respond.
As a child of God and a mother to two precious boys (soon to be girl), I want this verse to represent me and the way I speak to our children:
"She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue." Proverbs 31:26
Here are a few things to remember when I feel frustrated:
1. wait. Cool off before I speak. This will give me time to think rather than react. I must remember that I will most often react with words that are from my old nature than my new life in Christ.
2. speak softly. Frustration and anger is fed by an increase in volume. I want to speak softly and take down barriers.
3. Ask God to help when the temperature begins to rise. He alone can change me.

I pray that He will keep me sensitive in this area. I want our home to be a haven for our children as well as my husband.

I found this quote and I thought I would share it:
In every conversation we choose whether we are going to
  • affirm the positive or dwell on the negative
  • spotlight the growth or the weakness
  • celebrate the victories or rehash the failures
  • encourage (give courage to another) or discourage (take courage from another)
  • think the worst or assume the best
  • draw them to Christ or push them away
  • And what we choose will make a difference in someone's life. . . . one way or another.


I want to begin now setting healthy patterns of communication children. If I am not their primary source of encouragement to, who is going to encourage them?

We only have a few more weeks before Baby Girl joins us. I want to cherish each day since these are the last days that I will have with just "the boys."

Saturday, March 08, 2008

More Snow Pictures

This morning we got up and went outside to play in the snow. Jake was so excited to go outside and run through the yard. Judd still didn't find must interest in the snow. He just wanted us to hold him the whole time. We tried to build a snowman, but it didn't work. I guess building snowmen are not skills that are developed when you live in the south your whole life.


Jake was so excited that they were all wearing Carhart Overalls.


Can't you tell just how excited Judd was to be standing in the snow? He was watching Jim make the snowman. 


Edit: we took both boys to the Dr. after lunch and found out that Judd has double ear infections and Jake has another infection in his right ear. This could explain why they didn't enjoy the snow as much as we had hoped.

Friday, March 07, 2008

Snow

It is snowing! When the boys woke up from their naps we took them outside to experience the snow. They were not as impressed as I thought they would be. I guess they are still a little young. They were freezing and I was being a good mom and taking pictures for them. :-)
I think Skye enjoyed the snow more than anyone.






Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Thinking of You, Jim

This post is for my sweet husband:
This is a list of the 100 reasons why I love you...


He...
  1. loves the Lord with all his heart, mind, soul and strength
  2. loves me more than I deserve
  3. is a great Daddy
  4. has an incredible work ethic
  5. is very wise
  6. makes me feel secure by providing so well for me and the family
  7. makes me feel secure because he is always loyal and faithful
  8. his kisses are terrific!
  9. is my favorite person to be with.
  10. a great leader
  11. is an incredible husband
  12. loves me unconditionally
  13. loves to be at home; it is his favorite place
  14. is always ready to play with the boys
  15. always knows the “right” thing to say
  16. is always cool, calm, and collected.

  17. is positive
  18. is SWEEEEEEEET!
  19. is understanding.  He has to be with a nutty wife like me!

  20. is brilliant
  21. studies God's word faithfully
  22. has devotions with our  children
  23. serves me
  24. prays for me and our children
  25. prays for my family
  26. reads my blog
  27. is neat
  28. is understanding when the house is a mess
  29. does dishes
  30. doesn’t like coffee
  31. doesn’t like chocolate
  32. has put up with me faithfully for 5 years.
  33. loves Georgia football
  34. loves football
  35. loves baseball
  36. is self-controlled
  37. spurs me on to righteousness.
  38. loves to encourage me after long days with the boys
  39. eats whatever I cook
  40. is willing to let me use all my words at the end of the day, even when he is very sleepy
  41. is really good with money
  42. is teaching the boys how to be godly men
  43. is an awesome Pastor
  44. is an excellent preacher
  45. preaches the Gospel with passion
  46. looks so sexy in a suit…My preacher man
  47. plays the guitar
  48. sings better than me
  49. can type faster than me
  50. he still loves me, when I am grumpy
  51. he is my best friend
  52. he always puts me before himself
  53. he completes me
  54. holds the key to my heart
  55. is simply irresistible
  56. has a very forgiving heart
  57. IS my better half
  58. loves me without make-up
  59. loves me when I stay in my pj’s all day
  60. he compliments me
  61. is sensible
  62. teaches me how to be more like Jesus
  63. wants to honor God in every area of his life
  64. makes many animal noises
  65. has been used by the Lord in so many ways to help me.
  66. is a willing vessel
  67. reads a lot
  68. will go shopping with me even though he doesn’t like to shop
  69. is gentle in speech
  70. has great vocabulary and understands grammar rules
  71. loves to study God's word.
  72. loves his boys and wants to see them love Jesus more than anything else
  73. is very supportive
  74. has dimples- Very Cute DimplesJ
  75. is so cute
  76. I love how he makes me feel when I think I am nothing
  77. loves music
  78. takes wonderful care of us
  79. keeps me focused
  80. rarely complains
  81. is almost perfect...I said almost...just in case he reads this ;)
  82. loves racquetball
  83. loves to have family time
  84. loves to watch the boys play
  85. works really hard
  86. is silly
  87. helps with the boys more than any other dad I know.
  88. is tender
  89. I know he was chosen for me by the Lord.
  90. is definitely a kindred spirit.
  91. likes my friends
  92. they like him
  93. inspires me
  94. I love him more than I did the day I married him.
  95. Things are better when he is around
  96. Things are easier to manage if I can feel his hand in mine
  97. Things are easier to decide if I can talk to him
  98. Sleep is definitely easier if he is beside me
  99. I love sharing my life with him
  100. My husband is more than worthy of respect. I pray that I bring honor to him.
SHMILY!!!

Saturday, March 01, 2008

Meet Jonah

My mom bought Jake a blue male betta fish for his birthday. Jim and Jake named him Jonah. What a great name for a fish! Jake is funny. He tells the fish to be good and not to jump out of the bowl when we leave the house. 

Meet Jonah:

Jake Turns Three

I can't believe that my oldest baby is three years old!

This has been a great couple of days with a couple of emotional moments. 
For several months we have been telling Jake that he was moving into his big bed when he turned three. For those of you that didn't know, Jake loved this crib. I think he would have stayed in it until he went to high school. 

On Tuesday the day before his birthday, I put him down in his crib for the last time. It was at that moment that I realized he was getting big. After I laid him down I called Jim at work and started crying..... I was sad because that was the last time I was ever going to put him in his crib. It was just one of those mommy moments!

Wednesday: February 27-The Big Day
Jake and I spent the morning together cleaning house and then Jim came home at lunch to spend the rest of the day with us. After lunch, Jim and Jake took the crib apart and gave it to Baby Girl. Jake was excited to give his sister the crib, however, he did ask us if he could have his bed back after she was finished using it. We told him yes. By the way, he will be five or six and I don't think he will want it back at that point.



Once we got the bed set up in the baby's room, we opened presents and then it was time to take a nap. This was the moment we had been anticipating. Jake climbed in the big bed and didn't fuss at all. We were excited, no crying. He didn't nap at all, but he didn't cry so we were pleased. That night he went right to sleep and we haven't had any problems with the transition. Once again, Jake has proven to transition very well. I am so thankful!

Sleeping through the night:


Jim and I gave him a play shot gun or as Jake calls it a "shoot" gun. He LOVES it. 


Friday: February 29- The Party
We celebrated Jake's party on Friday night. He was allowed to invite three friends since he was three years old. We had a Diego Party. It was very small, but he enjoyed having his friends over to play. I was thankful that my mom was able to be hear. She flew in on Thursday and is leaving Sunday. It is great to have people from home visit.

Saturday: March 1- Go Diego Go
This morning was the end of Jake's birthday. Jim and I bought him tickets to go see Diego Live. We got up this morning and drove to Memphis to watch the show. He enjoyed seeing Diego and Baby Jaguar. I was nervous buying the tickets, but he really did enjoy going. 

Happy Birthday Jake!

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Psalm 12:7

There are times that I find myself worrying about my boys future. I get nervous that they are growing up in this generation. I know what it was like to grow up and go through school 15 years ago and I can't imagine the pressures that they will face in the future.

Well, I was reading today and I found this verse.
Psalm 12:7--You, Oh Lord, will keep them: You will preserve him from this generation forever.

This verse will be one of my new prayers for my boys. It just gave me confidence that my God can preserve and guard them from the negative influences in this world. There will come a time when I can't personally protect them. I am just thankful that I have a God that loves them and will take care of them better that I ever could.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

New Pictures of the Boys

I haven't posted any new pictures of the boys lately. Since we have been sick for so many months it has been hard even take pictures much less post.

This picture is of Jake. This morning he came running in my room while I was getting dressed. This the outfit he had picked out. I thought it was great! I love the UGA and the cowboy boots. All he kept telling me was,"Mom, I am a Georgia fan."



Tonight I took pictures of them in the bathtub. Bath time is a good time to take pictures because they are contained:-)

Sweet brothers!!

31 weeks

I thought I would post a picture of my at 31 weeks. I went the doctor on Wednesday. Mommy and Baby girl are doing great! I still can't believe she will be here in 9 or so weeks. Jake was two weeks early and Judd was one week early. Hopefully, she will decide to come right on time. :-) I still enjoy sleeping through the night!!! However, I am eager to see what she looks like and how the boys will act when she comes. 

Last night, Jake was getting ready to go to bed and he looked at me and said "Mommy is your belly still big?" I can proudly say "Yes"

By the way, she still doesn't have a name! 

Monday, January 28, 2008

Praying for My Children



It is so weird to write children instead of "boys." How different to know that I have a little girl coming in 11 weeks.

I read this verse last night and it really motivated me to start praying more specifically and consistently for my children.

Lamentations 2:19 says “Pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord. Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children.”

I spent some time last night researching how other couples pray for their children and this is one idea that I thought would work for us. If you know me then you know that I am a list person so I need a list to stay focused.

Jim and I plan to take time to discuss each child's strengths and weaknesses. Hopefully, by doing this we can commit to pray through each of those areas and work with them to embrace their strengths and have victory over their weaknesses. At the end of 6 months we can reevaluate, update, and praise the Lord for his faithfulness. Also, by writing these down we will be able to look back and see how faithful our God is at answering our prayers.

They belong to Him, we are just allowed us the incredible blessing of raising them for a short time. I want that time to be productive and effective in His eyes.

If you have any input on the topic let me hear from you.

Friday, January 25, 2008

Boy vs Girl Names

Boys names are so easy to figure out. We have two more on our list, but girls names have always been hard for us to decide on. We know that we want it to be a GIRL name. Not a name that could be a girl or could be a boy. We don't want anyone reading or hearing the name and wandering, hmm, is this is a boy or a girl. 
For example: Jake, there is no doubt in your mind that he is a boy. No question with that one. Judd, once again no question. 
As we continue on this journey to name our little girl, we know that her name will have been well thought out. 


Friday, January 11, 2008

Perdue Family Update

I know that I haven't even said Happy New Year, but life has been a bit overwhelming at times. I just thought I would give quick update of the end of 07 and the beginning of 08.

Dec 23- Drove to Atlanta
Dec 24- Perdue and Etheredge Christmas
Dec. 25- Brown and Perdue Christmas
Dec 26- Shopping and Jim Cleghorn's Birthday
Dec 27- Try to relax
Dec 28- Travel to Atlanta
Dec 29- Judd's Birthday Party at the Mansion and Judd's One year Pictures
Dec. 30- Travel to Jackson, Ga for church and enjoy Family time at Nanabuds lake house
Dec 31- Jim went hunting and came home with a fever
This is where it gets good:
Dec 31- 11:35 p.m Jake wakes me up telling me that his tummy hurts.....
We stay up off and on until 4 a.m. with him throwing up and then at 4:30 the other part of the stomach bug starts to hit him so we stay up until 7:30 going to sit on the potty....Oh Yeah...Happy New Year!
Jan 1- The day we had planned to travel home...didn't happen! Jim left us in Georgia so he could get back to work. Judd started throwing up at noon and we just all laid around watching football.
Jan 2- Nana graciously brought us back to TN.
Jan 3- Jim and I felt pretty horrible all day and the boys still needed to recover so all four of us stayed on the couch all day. Jake will Jim and Judd with me. It really was a sweet time to cuddle,but we all felt yucky!!
Jan 4- We finally felt better. I started organizing the house some.
Jan 5- Jim is sick again-this make for another rough day
Jan 6- Church and Jim leaves for Lynchburg for the week
Jan 7-9 The boys and I try to manage without daddy around.
Jan 10- Jake wakes up with pinkeye.
Jan 11- Can't wait to see Daddy

We are hoping the Jan 14 will bring a new day, new year, and a normal schedule to our daily lives. 
I am blessed, but overwhelmed  this week. Question: what in the world am I going to do with three? I am just thankful this is Jim's last class!!!!

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Baby Trey Update

Many of you have read this, but I thought it was worth posting:

On Dec 21, Jim and I went to have a 3D/4D ultrasound in Memphis. I really wanted to have a video of this baby since I had one for both of the boys and none of the ultrasound places around here would record my 20 week ultrasound. It was so cool seeing the baby in 4D.

Another reason we decided to get the ultrasound was I wanted to surprise our parents on Christmas morning with the gender of the baby. No, I didn't want to find
out, but I thought that it would be a nice present for our parents. It was a really hard decision for me.

Let's pause and rewind a few weeks before I continue. At our 20 week ultrasound the baby's legs were crossed, but the technician made a guess and Jim was able to find out on his 30th birthday. I still didn't want to know and I didn't want to find our if her guess was wrong, so I decided not to look at the picture. He did a great job of keeping it a secret.
Okay, back to the 3D ultrasound.....

When we got into the room I told Jim that if we could tell then I would try and guess the gender. So the lady started the video and I was able to tell immediately. I guessed and I was right. I must say now that I will not find out in the future. I REALLY enjoy not knowing....but since our parents and the rest of our family know I thought I would share our
news with each of you.

Jake has known since day one and he has always said "We are having a GIRL!!!" How did I raise such a smart kid!!!

Happy New Year!!! Our world will change in April!

p.s. No she doesn’t have a name!

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Judd is 1!

I can't believe that my little baby turned 1 on Friday. It just seems like yesterday I was waking up at all hours of the night to feed him, and wondering if he would ever sleep through the night. He is now sleeping through the night, walking, laughing, and signing milk, more, and please. He doesn't talk much, but he is a pure joy to have in our lives.


We had a small party at our house Friday night, but his birthday party is going to be Dec. 29 when we are home for the holidays. I decided to have his 1st birthday party with our family. Here are a few picture from Friday night.

He loved playing in the cake, but he didn't want to eat any of it.


Daddy, Jake and Judd playing with Judd's new basketball goal. 


Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Baby Trey Update

On Jim's birthday, November 29, we had our 20 week sonogram. This was a great sonogram. We got to see many pictures of the baby. At this point, we have a breech thumb sucker. Also, the baby was sure to keep its legs crossed and the umbilical cord in between the legs. We have a great picture to prove it.
Below are a few pictures from the sonogram. If you would like to view Jim's favorite go to his blog.

This is the picture of its legs crossed.


This is our baby sucking its thumb.


This is a picture of the face and hands.

Jim's 30th Birthday

i can't believe I am married to some one that is 30.:-) The best part is that he just gets better with age. If you want to see what I gave him for his birthday check out his blog.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Happy Anniversary, Jim!

I know that I am a few days late, but I wanted to express my love and thankfulness for my man. Our anniversary was November 23. This marked our 5th year together. It is hard to imagine that we have been married for 5 years. Our time together has gone by so quickly. We honestly love each more today than we did five years ago.

Jim, how can I thank you for your humility, leadership, genuineness, love, and constant joy. You have made being married to you something better than I ever could have imagined.

It's the most wonderful time of the year....

In just a few days, I can start celebrating Christmas. In our house we have one rule about getting the Christmas spirit. We must wait until Nov. 30. Jim requests that we not start celebrating until after his birthday.

As I prepare to decorate my house, wrap presents, do more projects with Jake, and just truly enjoy this time of year I wonder if I enjoy all of the things of Christmas more than I celebrate the greatest Gift of all. Tonight I was reading a blog, http://www.girltalk.blogs.com/, and they were discussing worldliness and this quote really made me stop and think about my motives for Christmas.

"Take the Christmas season, for instance. Every holiday I can be drawn to all things Christmassy--the shopping, buying gifts, wrapping presents, decorating the tree, baking holiday treats, attending parties and celebrations. Of course these things are not wrong in and of themselves. They can be delightful gifts from God. But I can be tempted to desire them more than the most important thing--regardless of the season: sitting at the Lord’s feet (Luke 10:38-41). And then I wonder why my heart feels so dull come December 26th."

How about you? Will you be to busy "doing" Christmas this year to sit at the Lord's feet and grow closer to Him this year?

This is the most wonderful time of the year......

Drivers License

Today was somewhat depressing. I went to the TN DMV and got a Tennessee license. I think the hardest part was giving up my Georgia license. I am happy to be here, but there are things that make my sad at times. Georgia has always been home. I have had a GA license since I was 16. It is just a little hard to give up your past.

Happy Thanksgiving

This year we celebrated a wonderful Thanksgiving. We spent the holiday in Tennessee. We decided that it would be to long of a drive to Georgia for such a short time.

Jake and I did Thanksgiving activities through out the week. He really enjoys "projects."


This is Jake holding his turkey puzzle.


This is the turkey we made by tracing his feet and hands. The body is the outline of Jake's feet and the feathers are his hands.

After breakfast, Thanksgiving morning Jim, Jake and I sat down and wrote things that we are thankful for on fall leaves. We really wanted to teach Jake that we should be thankful for all the blessings God has provided for us. After we finished we hung them on the window for us to discuss throughout the day.



This year our Thanksgiving dinner consisted of ham, mac and cheese, and green beans. I decided to cook things that I knew all of my boys would love. Here are a few pictures of our lunch.





We are blessed beyond belief. I am so thankful for the life God has given me. I look forward to another year to be thankful to the Giver of Life.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Preach like Daddy....

Ever since we moved to TN, Jim had been wearing ties on Sundays thus making Jake want a tie to wear "like daddy." A couple weeks ago I went shopping with a lady in our church. I passed by the little boys department and decided to get Jake a tie. He has been wanting to wear it to church, but we don' have any dress shoes and I just don't think a tie and New Balance "go" together so I told him that I would get him some dress shoes this week.

We went to the store yesterday and found some dress shoes for Jake. He was so excited he wore them all over the store. When we were checking out he told the cashier, " Look I have shoes, now I can wear my tie and preach like my daddy." Priceless......
edit...we had to return the shoes so now he has black cowboy boots which are just as great to preach in.:-)

So this Sunday, Jake will be wearing his shirt, tie, khakis, boots, and preaching like daddy........

Home

We made it home safely. We home last Wednesday morning. It was so great to see Jim and be with him again. Jake and Judd were so glad to see him, Jake was running through the airport and Judd was kicking his legs and waving his arms in the stroller. It really is amazing the bond between my boys and their daddy. I am very thankful to have such a loving devoted husband who treasures the role of father.

We had a good trip in Elko and in Atlanta. It was good to see family, but we are glad to be back.

Sunday, November 04, 2007

Missing My Man

This week the boys and I have been in Georgia. (I will post more later) We have enjoyed our time, but I really miss my man. He has been painting our house and working while we spend time with our family.

I have such a wonderful husband. I’m blessed beyond anything I could ever imagine because I have him as a husband. I prayed for a long time to find someone like Jim and God answered my prayers so perfectly in him.

I can't wait to see him very soon.

Jim, you are the love of my life!

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Go Dawgs!

Go Dawgs! I am so excited that the Georgia beat Florida! I just wish we would have beaten Tennessee.

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Bobbing for Apples

I feel like I rarely post about Jim and I. Tonight we went to two Sunday School classes fellowships. At the first Jim and I bobbed for apples. I thought I would post since this is such a cute picture.

Judd....Walking??

Judd is only 10 months and he has started walking. There are very few things that he has done before Jake, but walking is definitely one of them. He has only taken 6 steps, but it will not be long before he is running after Jake. This is going to be so much fun. I am excited that he is walking. I get tired of holding 22 lbs when we go places.

Hopefully, I will get a picture of him and post it soon.

Trey

Sick and Tired! Those are two words that would describe the last twelve weeks of my life.
Yes, we are having another baby. I am due April 16. We found out that we were pregnant two days before we left Georgia. Our house was in boxes and we were celebrating becasue we were going to have another little one. We are calling this one Trey since it is the third one. We wonder if this one will be a girl or boy. So far this pregnancy has been very different than the others. I have been much sicker and more tired. The tiredness could be due to the fact I have two some ones running around all day.

The fun has just begun! I cannot wait to meet this precious baby!

Friday, August 24, 2007

Growing Up To Fast

My baby boy has his first tooth. Judd's first bottom tooth broke through today. This is a sad day because I just love the toothless grins. Soon he will have a mouth full of teeth just like his big brother. This is the first step towards graduating and moving out! Hopefully, I will be able to post of pictures soon.

Saturday, August 04, 2007

Pure Joy

I finally sat down and figured out how to upload pictures to the blog.
Here are some recent pictures of the boys.




Birthday Humor

Today started off pretty early for our family. Both boys woke up before 7 and they were so whiny. I just don't understand why children just don't sleep when they are sleepy. In about ten years, I am not going to be able to drag them out of the bed at 7:00 a.m.

Well, since we were up so early, Jim was a little bit ill. After breakfast I looked at our calendar and saw that today is his brother Dan's birthday. I turned to Jim and said, "Hey, It's Dan's Birthday." Jim in his best early morning humor typed his very funny email to Dan.

"For a special gift on your birthday, I decided NOT to call you at 6:45 this morning when the boys woke up. I thought about you again at 7:30 and decided I would give you another gift and wait to call. Now, it is after 8:30 and, once again, I’m showering you with love and appreciation as I am still waiting to call you and wish you a Happy Birthday. So, know that you are thought of and that (even though you might not realize it) you have received multiple gifts from me today!!!

Love you bro,
Jim"

This may not be as funny to you as it is to me, but I lived through this morning and I am glad that we can still find humor in the midst of turmoil.

Thursday, July 26, 2007

New Beginnings...

As of July 8, Jim became the new pastor of Crosspointe Baptist Church in Millington, TN. We are quickly preparing to move Aug. 7. Our first Sunday is August 12.

God has so graciously found us a house and we are praying that our house in Ga will sell very quickly.

This process has been diffcult and exciting. Jim and I have said repeatedly that this has been a very clear decision, but one of the hardest that we have ever had to make. It is hard to leave our family, home state, North Cross, and our friends. I know that God has a plan for us, but it isn't always easy being obiedent.

The following verses have been great reminders for us through this process:
Isaiah 43:18-19, Isaiah 45:3, Isaiah 55:8, and Jer 29:11-13.

I know that God is faithful and He will be our Comforter, Sustainer, and Rock through this time.

My prayer for the boys:

Jake and Judd
-transition into the new house and church
-that they would have godly playmates and influences
-remain heathly
-that they would not be anxious
-that they would love Jesus more as a result of us moving to TN
-that they would be a bold witness for the Lord

Jim
-wisdom and discernment
-guidance with decisions that must be made
-God would us Jim to grow His kingdom as a result of us being in TN

This is a new season....this is the time God has chosen! I pray that we will honor Him with our lives.

The Perdues will miss Georgia!

10 year Reunion

I really enjoyed my 10 year reunion. It was nice to see everyone after so long. Our reunion was really good and classy. The committee did a greta job planning a preparing for the weekend.

Friday night we met at HOCO and had a tour of the school. It was so much bigger now. Several things had changed. I think I was most sad to see that the carpet was gone and that the round tables were missing in the lunchroom. Next, we went to Cheddar's for a time to hang out and get reaquainted.

Saturday there was a family picnic at Ted Wright park. It was hot, but it was fun to see everyone's family.
Saturday night was great. We had a semi-formal event at Houston Lake Country Club. I really enjoyed hanging out. I even made my way to the dance floor a couple of times. I think that Jim enjoyed laughing at me. I couldn't get him to join me, but it was still so much fun. To top off the evening, everyone voted on superlatives..i.e. most changed, least changed, prettiest female, handsome male...etc. I won Most Changed in 10 years. How funny! Jim and I would like to think that the change was Jesus in me, but I know that my physical appearance is very different also. My hair is about 20 inches shorter and I weigh about 40lbs less.

Jim and I had fun and I look forward to 2017!

Summer....

It has been so long since I have updated. Our life is has been so busy the past few months. Here is a run down of what we have been doing:

June 1-2 Family Vacation at Lake Blackshear
June 17-22 Visit to Elko
June 29-30 10yr Reunion (more information to come)
July 2-5 Youth Camp for North Metro
July 6-8 Fly with the boys to TN (more information to come)
July 10-14 Family Vacation at Lake Burton

whew! This is too much travel for one family. Thankfully we are back home, but now we are trying to get ready for the season of our life......

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Happy Mother's Day

This is my third Mother's Day! I am amazed at how quickly time flies. Jake was only three months old on my first Mother's Day. It was a fun day. My mom gave me a very special present that day. It was a "grandparents book" that journaled my whole life through pictures and family trees. It took her countless hours to create the book, but I LOVED it and I still do. However, it is at her house so that she can update it periodically.

I love everyday that I get to hear the word Mommy. At times, I may wish to not hear it anymore that day, but I do love my boys and love to hear Jake say mommy (soon Judd will say ma ma :-)). Being a mother is the one of the greatest joys of my life. First is being a child of God, and second is being the wife to the greatest man, Jim Perdue.

Mother's Day is a great day! It is even better now that I have children. Not from the point of view that I am Jake and Judd's mom, but now I can truly appreciate my mom even more.

Mom: I just want to say thanks a ton for enduring the pain of birth on March 19, 1979. And thanks for putting up with all the mess I handed you as a child. You've put up with me 10,275 days and for that I'm grateful. There's no doubt I'm blessed to have survived many of those days.

p.s. Jim wanted to know what I wanted for Mother's Day. This is what I asked for: I want twelve hours of "me" time so that I can clean the house and run errands all in one day. How awesome of a day will that be??!!! I must say I can not wait!

Monday, May 07, 2007

Sonny's

In an earlier post I mentioned that Sonny's BBQ was special to Jim and me. I guess I will explain today.

Before Jim and I officially started dating we both drove two hours to a Christmas expo in Charlotte, NC. I was still in GA and he was in Seminary at the time. Two of my girlfriends, Jessica Goheen (now Moody)and Melissa, and I decided to drive to this expo. JIm thought it would be fun to meet us there. *side note* after being married to him for almost 5 years I know that this trip was a sacrifice for him and he only wanted to be with me. He is not big on Christmas Decorating and he doesn't like shopping. this makes me smile*end side note* After we finished shopping Jim talked us into going to eat at Sonny's in Charlotte. Jim and I sat down and ordered the exact same thing and we ate the bread the same way. This meal was just one of the many light bulb moments during our short dating relationship. We have eaten at that Sonny's many times since our first lunch and we love to retell the story when we are there.

Another excting trip was when Jim took me to eat at Sonny's in Warner Robins the day that we go engaged. How perfect!

Lastly, we ate at Sonny's in Buford for lunch the day that I went in to labor with Jake.

Who would have thought that this one restaurant would hold so many special memories for the Perdue family.

p.s. We tried to eat at Sonny's to help induce Judd, but it just didn't work. :-)

Sunday, April 22, 2007

Blessed!

I am blessed! I have the best husband in the whole world. He is a great husband and an awesome daddy. Before we had Jake, I always thought he would be a great dad, but now seeing him with our boys just amazes me. Jake and Judd have an amazing godly example to look to as they grow to be men of God.

Friday, April 13, 2007

Quick Visit

Wednesday afternoon we left Forsyth County to visit the great Warner Vegas. Actually, we drive past it to Elko since my mom moved, but I still like to say Warner Vegas. We spent several days visiting with my mom, Benny, and my grandparents who live a mile from my mom. It is always good to go home especially when there are five adults to watch two boys. I feel more like a supervisor when we are visiting. :-) I just make sure the boys are fed, napped, and living on "the schedule" while everyone else takes care of them. It is such a wonderful blessing to be around family and to have some help. I was even given the opportunity to take two showers and get dressed without being interrupted.

Wednesday night Jim and I met Jessica Perdue at Sonny's for dinner after our VERY long (long as in the boys screamed or whined most of the ride) ride home. Sonny's is great and it has so much meaning for Jim and I. (Sonny's significance in our lives could have it's on post). After dinner Jessica came out to the house and Dan met her at mom's. They enjoyed seeing the boys. It was so good to spend some time with them.

When we arrived at mom's Jake was still running around barefoot with the keys, his Papa gave him, in his pocket, and holding up his pants as he ran around. He LOVES Elko. I think part of his love comes from the fact that he gets to ride the 4-wheeler, go-cart, and the tractor. What's not to love about the country!!! Oh I forgot about the new kittens....he gave them names this week...Brown, Lil Waser (laser), and Zeb.

On Thursday Jake had another visitor. Jim came out to visit for a short time. Jake loves Jim, but I think Amber is soon to take his place:-)

We had a great visit home. I am excited that summer is coming and we can spend more time in the country! Simple pleasures and children's laughter!

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Potty Training Update

Week 2-

I know that I left you last week on the edge of your seats wanting to know how Jake was going to continue. Well I am pleased to announced that Jake is potty trained. He is doing great. He still has to work on telling me that he needs to go without me asking, but he is catching on.

Funny moments- I have given him a very elementary explanation of the digestive system. It goes in your mouth, down to your belly, and in the potty. So now everytime he goes #2 Jake looks in the potty and he says there is my chicken, there is my hotdog, bye-bye meat. It is hilarious, and if it works I am all for it.

Judd- What a great little boy! He is so sweet! He is now going to sleep without crying when I lay him down.

I am so glad that the weather is warmer so that we can play outside more.

Monday, March 26, 2007

Day One...Potty Training

Jake and I started the dreaded journey of potty training. I have said that I was going to wait until he was close to three to start training him, but ever since he turned two I have really felt that he was so close to started. He wasn't interested, but I was say other cues that led me to think he would be ready. SOOO...

I started reading information. I was clueless. The only thing I did know was I was not going to buy pull-ups and once we started I wasn't going back to diapers. So you see why I wanted to wait to start. While I was trying to figure opt what to do I had a conversation with Jim's mom and she told me about the 7 days and $75 method. The general idea is parents stay at home with the child for several days and allow the child to walk around the house naked all day long. The potty is put out so it is constantly available to the child. Parents regularly remind the child to use the potty when necessary. Rosemond argues that children won't tolerate urine and feces running down their legs, and will quickly learn to go to the potty to avoid accidents. The $75 is for carpet cleaning.

Well I thought this would be perfect. I need my carpet cleaned anyway why not give it a try. So I set the date Monday, March 26. No more diapers! We started telling Jake that he was going to start going on the big boy potty and we named all of the different ways to go on the potty.

Well D-Day came this morning. When Jake woke up we took his diaper off and he ran around all day with one of Jim's T-Shirts on. We sat him on the potty and he wasn't thrilled to be there. But if you remember from my last post Jake loves to blow out candles. So we had candles in the bathroom for him to blow out every time he sat on the potty. He didn't go. I set the timer on the microwave for 20 minutes. When it beeped we ran to the bathroom. He sat, blew out candles, and got up. Set the timer again...it beeped. Same result as last time. Set timer....this went on for three hours. I knew that he was getting close to going since he continued to drink in between sessions. Around 10 the timer went off and we ran to the potty. He did the same as the previous tries, but he started to really squirm like a worm. I told him what he needed to do to go tinkle and finally HE WENT! HE smiled so BIG! It was great. So his reward is to flush the toliet and wash his hands. He was pumped!

He contined to go tinkle in the potty the rest of the day without ANY accidents today.

I guess you are wondering if he went #2. Well here is that story: right after lunch we sat on the potty. I knew that he would have to go #2 because he ALWAYS does so we tried. NO luck! So we went back into the living room. He was sitting reading a book and all the sudden he stands up takes off his shirts and RUNS to the bathroom saying "mommy I HAVE to go potty." I ran in there behind him and he is on the potty looking at me telling me to "go back in there." about 2 seconds later there is #2 in the potty and he is off looking in the toilet to see what just happened. I did the potty dance and he was able to hand me the brand new wipes that we had been saving to use for this very special occasion.

So to sum up 13 hours of potty training on our first day with one word I would say: SUCCESS!!!!

I am so proud of him!
p.s. this is a long post and I am not going to reread it so if there are mistakes please forgive me!

Happy Belated Birthday Update

I am a week late blogging about my birthday, but it was extra special this year so I want to be sure to share.....

The day started with me getting the boys up and going to the gym. When we came back there were flowers on the table with candles burning and cupcakes were placed at each of our seats. Jim came running up stairs when he heard us walk in. We all sat down and Jim and Jake sang Happy Birhtday to me and then we blew out the candles. I then opened my cards from Jake and Judd. Jake had written and colored in my card :-) Jim gave me a pedicure and a coupon for two shopping trips by myself while he watches the boys. What a great present!!! I haven't been shopping in forever much less by myself. I am pumped!

Well after we ate lunch we had another round of cupcakes and they sang Happy Birthday again. Jake loves to blow out candles but he doesn't like to eat the cake.

To end the evening we ate dinner with some people in church and we finished dinner with the last round of cupcakes and Happy Birthday. Right before we went to bed Jim gave me his card which included cash to take on my shopping trips:-)

It was a great day and Jim did a great job making me feel extra special!

All of this is really funny because Jim's family doesn't make a big deal out of birthday's and I think that it is my birthday the whole month of March! He always feels this huge amount of pressure to make me feel special each year! He is the best husband in the whole world. I am blessed!!!!

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

It is March Madness time again!

Well it has been a year since I started blogging. I think that I may have blogged a total of 12 times in one year. Like I said maybe I will get better

My brackett this year is going to be a bust. I picked random teams and can't wait to see how badly I lose. I will keep you posted!

By the way, I have caught Jake pulling down his pants and taking his diaper off looking to see if he has gone #2 two times this week. Thank goodness his diaper is only wet when he decides to do this:-) I know it is time to start potty training, but I am trying to wait until the summer. The boy is a mess!

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Jake is Two

Life is going great!

Jake turned two on Feb. 27.We had his party on march 3. I did an airplane theme. We invited several of his friends and all of our family. He had a blast playing. He doesn't like cake so he enjoyed blowing out the candles. I cannot believe that my little boy is growing up so quickly. He is saying things and making me laugh more and more everyday. Jim and I have been teaching Bible verses and he can now quote Eph 6:1, Romans 3:23, Gen 1:1 and we are now working on Phil 4:13. He is a joy and we are very blessed to be his parents.

Judd is sleeping through the night. He is sleeping from his last feeding at 10 until somewhere between 4-6. He actually slept until 7 last Sunday. He is smiling big open mouth smiles and even giggles.

Jake has mixed reactions to him. At times he can be very sweet to Judd and others he just wants to make him cry. I guess this is the beginning of great years between brothers. However, once again tonight I prayed that they would have a strongbold, they would love each other in a very special way, they would seek to follow Christ and be Him obedient in everything.

i am going to try and blog more often. Who knows! I may get to busy with the boys! :-)

Thursday, February 01, 2007

Late Nights

Six weeks after Judd is born I am still awake in the middle of the night feeding him. As you can see I have found that I can be productive at 2 a.m. I use Jim's laptop while I am up to return emails, catch up on the latest news, and now I am even updating my blog.

So how is life as a mom of two boys? BUSY! The first few weeks were difficult, but now the main difference is I have very little time for myself. However, I think that once Judd sleeps through the night and I don't feel like I need a nap everyday I will be able to get somethings taken care of during nap time. I do love my boys. I am sure that life will be very active when Judd gets a little bit bigger. Something tells me he isn't going to continue to let Jake poke his eyes and shake his feet.

I have started going to the gym and the boys go to chldcare. This has been great for me. I am excited about losing the rest of the baby weight and wearing all of my clothes again. :-) I am just not satisfied carrying 7 more pounds.

more to come from the late night brain.....that's another thing... I am losing my memory more and more each day!

Friday, December 22, 2006

It's a BOY!

It’s a BOY! After nine long months of wondering, speculating and guessing we became parents of our second healthy baby boy December 14th, at 4:42 PM, at Northeast Georgia Medical Center in Gainesville. Judd was 7 lbs 8 oz at birth and 20 inches long. Judd and I are doing great and Jake is adjusting to his new “big brother” role. Jim is taking some time off to help with the big adjustment. We’ve definitely been BUSY!

But life is great and God is good as always. We couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate Christmas than welcoming our new son into the world. Merry Christmas to all of you and God Bless!

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Extra! Extra! Read All About It

Here is the link to an article written about Baby Sprout! Hot off the press....

I cannot wait to meet this bundle of joy!


I cannot wait to meet this bundle of joy!
Sat Aug 12  2006

HARRIS BLACKWOOD
Columnist
Bi Ba and Little Buddy
It’s not often that a suburban newspaper gets one of those hot inside scoops straight from the gov- ernor’s office.
This week, your award-winning columnist has
done just that. Sometime in December,
Gov. Sonny Perdue and his charming wife, Mary, will wel- come their sixth grandchild into the world.
The couple’s son, the Rev. Jim Perdue of Forsyth County, and his wife, Stephanie, are expecting their second child. Jim Perdue is the pastor of North Cross Baptist Church, which meets on Sundays at North Forsyth High School. Their first, 18- month-old Jake, was delivered by Dr. Clayton Cox at Northeast Georgia Medical Center in Gainesville. He did such a good job that he has been tapped for the gubernatorial grand- child gig for a second time.
Little Jake just may be a political prodigy. The young fellow is six months away from his second birth- day and can already identify political signs and bumper stickers belonging to “Big Buddy.”
For those of you who haven’t heard, “Big Buddy” is the name the governor is called by his grandchil- dren, and also by President Bush. The president thought it was so cool that he mentioned it in a speech.
On the other hand, the governor has a special name for Bush. He calls him “Mr. President.”
Jim tells me that when Jake sees one of Big Buddy’s signs, he says an emphatic “Bi Ba,” which is toddler speak for Big Buddy. We have it on high authority that the “Ba” part is clear and distinct and should never, never, ever be confused with “Big Guy,” the chosen moniker of Lt. Gov. Mark Taylor, who is running against the governor.
The governor told me this week that this early political thing may be genetic in his grandchildren and is hopeful that it will carry on to the new baby.
It first surfaced four years ago at a debate with Perdue’s foe and pred- ecessor, Gov. Roy Barnes.
“We took the twins to the debate,” Perdue said. “When we asked them what Big Buddy was going to do to Governor Barnes dur- ing the debate, they said ‘Beat him like a dwum (drum).’
“Now, Jake is identifying cam- paign signs in front yards and yelling out ‘Bi Ba.’ I guess Proverbs 22:6 is true: ‘Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.’”
Now to make things even more exciting, Jake’s little brother or sister is due to arrive about the same time as Big Buddy’s 60th birthday on Dec. 20.
I spoke this week with Mary Perdue, who is known as “Nana” to her grandchildren (just “Mary” to President Bush). She’s glad to talk about the state and her projects as first lady. But oh, there’s a gleam in her eye when she talks about the grandkids.
Turns out, there is a precedent for shared birthdays in the Perdue crowd. Their youngest son, Dan, was born on the same day as the gover- nor’s father. I know they love them all equally, but if Big Buddy and the new Little Buddy get to have a same-day celebration, it would be a pretty big deal.
“That would just be icing on the cake,” the first lady said.
Mrs. Perdue told me that Stephanie and Jim saw a sonogram this week and the baby is progress- ing just fine. Jake is getting ready for his first “big” job, the one of being “Big Brother.”
“Honestly, I never thought I would enjoy anything more than our own children,” Mrs. Perdue said. “But being a grandparent is definite- ly not overrated. It’s one of those things you can’t quite figure out why it’s so great.”

Saturday, August 05, 2006

Update

So it has been several months since I last wrote. I cannot believe that I am so bad about updating, yet I can find time to read everyone else's blogs. Even Jim, my adorable husband, blog's more than I do. :-)

Well, I am half way through my pregnacy. We have hit week 20....YIPPIE! Jim and I will go this week for the 20 week ultrasound. We have decided to keep the gender a secret once again. I really think it is a girl and Jim really thinks it is a boy so I guess we will wait until Dec to see. The good thing is at least one of us is right!

Jake is growing so fast. I cannot believe that he will be 18 months old at the end of this month. He is talking all the time. He is our little parrot. Actually, the house is quiet right now. He is spending the night with his MeMa and Papa in Elko. I am sure that he is having a blast!

As I reflect on my life I see that I am truly blessed. God has chosen to give me a great husband and an awesome son!

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

We Are Pregnant

I have been planning to write to for weeks now, but big brother keeps me busy running around after him. I am currently 14 weeks into my pregnancy with Baby Sprout. A lot has already happened so I guess I better spend some time catching up.

We found in April that we were expecting. We went to see the Dr and he confirmed that we would be due in Dec. We are thinking approximately the 21 or 23. Although we would love for the little bundle to come a little earlier in the month so that the baby's birthday wouldn’t be so close to Christmas, but we will take whatever blessing God gives us.

So May 12 Jim and I went to see Dr. Cox for our first ultrasound. We were able to hear the heartbeat, which was 170. Since I found out I was pregnant with I thought that I was having a girl and I have always heard that high heartbeats could mean a girl. I guess we will wait and see what God has in store for us in December.

I went back to Dr. Cox June 6 for my 12 week check-up. He said that everything was looking great. The heartbeat this time was 150 which is exactly what Jake's was the whole time he was in my tummy.

I am still wearing my clothes and I haven’t gained as much weight at this point. I am sure that I will be wearing maternity clothes soon enough. I have really enjoyed this pregnancy. Even though I was sick until my 11th week God has been so good. I am able to stay home with Jake and rest during the day. Your daddy is so wonderful. He doesn’t mind if I take a nap everyday. He knows that I need my rest so that you can grow to be a healthy baby. I can’t wait to feel you move around in my belly.