all is fair in love and football

When God moved us to Tennessee He allowed us to live in this great house and He even decided to bless us with wonderful neighbors. We love their whole family but they just happen to be Alabama fans.

All day Friday all of our kids played together and as we left to go home we discussed and imaginary line that wold be drawn between our yards Saturday morning. Neither one of us, wanted to go into enemy territory :-) My last words before walking in the house Friday night were, "I should paint a white line down the middle." Well the is what we woke up to on Saturday morning....
The black line was added by Jim later in the day. (just in case you are wondering, they painted in their yard not ours)



Just to through salt on the wounds, we came home from church on Sunday to find a Alabama flag on our rocking chair.

Did I really start this off by saying we love our neighbors??? :-) Yeah, we do! We enjoy good old fun!

Lessons Learned Through Laryngitis

It is interesting how the Lord is answers prayers.

I have been praying that I would be more intentional in my training of the boys and really try to teach them. I think one way in which I struggle is by yelling from one end of the house or raising my voice to get their attention. The Lord is quick to convict my heart, as soon as I do it I know that I should have gone to them and looked them in the eyes, spoke the direction so that I knew they understood what I needed for them to do. I can give many excuses as to why , but I think it is best described by saying, this is one of those Romans 7:15 moments,"I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do." I know that the Lord is working through me, but He has chosen an interesting way of teaching me this week.

I AM LOSING MY VOICE....

I am now forced to walk to them, knell down, look them in the eyes, speak softly and clearly. I must ask myself, "Self, why don't you do this every time?" God is growing me and everyday I need to remember that I have to decrease self and He must increase.

However, speaking softly is hard when Judd is in the neighbors yard playing and I think he is going to run into the street. I am sure I sounded like a dying cat tonight screaming JJJJUUUUDDDDDDD! either way it got his attention:-)

Top Ten Favorite Days

Top Ten Favorite Days
1. November 23
2. Feb 27
3. March 19
4. April 9
5. Dec 14
6. March 9
7. November 27
8. December 25
9. Easter
10. Dec 10
11. May 18

Can anyone tell me why ALL of these days are my favorite in 2008?

Gas vs Diesel

This morning while we were waiting for Jim at church Jake went into Anna Kate's class to visit with her and her teacher. A few minutes later several of the preschool ladies were laughing very loudly. One came and got me and told me to go talk to Anna Kate's teacher because she had a story to tell me.

Here's the story:

Sally (name changed to protect identity):-), Anna Kate's teacher, was holding Anna Kate and she began to smell something. She said "Anna do you have a dirty diaper" and after completing the one finger diaper check she realized Anna Kate was still clean. She then said, "Anna Kate did you have some gas." Jake said "huh" so Sally being funny looked a Jake and said " Well, Jake did you have some gas"

Drum roll....
Jake said "No, I have diesel"

Will you be my friend?

I can't believe I now have a Facebook. I think this is SO Funny. I am not sure how much I will do with it, but it is an interesting thing. How weird is it to "ask people to be your friend?" I don't remember the last time I had to ask someone to be my friend. Will you be my friend? "check yes or no."

Time to update...

WOW! It has been awhile since I last posted. I have so much to say, but I have been a busy lady chasing the boys around and feeding Anna Kate.

Last weekend Nana came to stay with us and help Jim take care of the babies while I went on a Women's Retreat with some of the ladies from Crosspointe. I had a great time on the retreat. I loved hanging out with the ladies and hearing Priscilla Shirer teach the Word.

I came home on Saturday afternoon and we decided to let Nana give Judd his first hair cut. He did very well. Here are some pictures of my big boy.

Friday Favorites

1. Little boys that can hear
2. Buying gas for $3.44
3. Getting a little bit of rain, but not to much
4. Watching a movie with my man while the little ones sleep
5. 90 degrees vs 106 degrees
6. Making new friends and talking to old ones
7. Only having 4 more baby lbs to lose:-)
8. Flip-Flops
   
9. Receiving flowers from my mom after two long weeks:-)
10. Knowing the God is in control even when I feel like everything is out of control

"Comment Me" a Memory

This was on my friend Kate's blog so I thought I would play along:
Who's going to be my friend and play along:

Comment Me A Memory.....
Come on, take a moment to think. (You know you want to.)

1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!
2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. If you don't want to play on your blog, or if you don't have a blog, I'll leave my memory of you in my comments.

My Boys and Tubes

My day started at 4:15 am. Jim and I got up and prepared to have the boys ready to leave for the hospital at 5:00 am. Today is the day we have been looking forward to for six weeks. Both of our boys were scheduled to have tubes put in their ears at 8:00, and of course that means we had to be at the hospital at 6:00 am. Could someone please tell me why you have to be there 2 hours prior to your scheduled surgery?

Both of the boy's surgery went very well. We dreaded the nurses taking them to the OR but they both walked away with the nurse and neither one of them cried. It was so great! Here is a picture of them walking around in their gowns. Aren't they adorable!

This is Jake playing with his mask while his is waiting to go back.

This Jake walking back.

I must admit recovery was the hardest part. The nurses called me back for Judd and he was very confused and upset. He didn't stop crying until he got cup of ice.




Jim went to get Jake and he was crying and complaining. They both have minor infections so they are on one more round of antibiotics. Hopefully, this will be the last for a while. Even with the difficult recovery I must admit the whole experience wasn't as bad as I thought it would be after talking to people.

They slept for a few hours when we got home and after lunch they were running around like "my boys."

Summer Vacation Part 2-Jackson Lake

We arrived at Jackson Lake on Saturday. Sunday morning Jim preached at Rock Springs and we had some friends come visit us. It was great to see the Cleghorns and the Biebers.

We spent the rest of the week on the lake riding the jet-ski, in the boat, or just hanging out the all the babies. It was a wonderful vacation.

Here are a few pictures from our time at Jackson Lake.

101

This is post 101! I can't believe that I have posted 101 times. That isn't a lot compared to many people, but I think it is a good milestone to celebrate. I think that I am going to try to make my blog into a blurb at the end of this year. (Hint: This is a good Christmas gift idea:-))

Have a great day! Thanks for reading all of my 101 posts!

By the way, I have 101 posts and 352 comments! I wonder how long it will take me to get 500 comments???

Summer Part 1-Elko

I can't believe that summer is coming to an end. It seems like school was over just last week and now all of the kids are going back tomorrow. I am amazed at how quickly time flies.

This is a recap of the Perdue summer.

July 3 we left and went to Georgia for vacation. We spent a few days at my mom's in Elko and then we went to Jackson Lake to spend some time with Jim's family. We loved being home and seeing our family.

These are pictures from the few days in Elko. My dad and aunt came over one day to take the boys fishing.It was hot and the fish were not biting so it wasn't a good experience for them, but I had a great time.

Digging For Worms

3 month Pictures of Anna Kate

Here are a few pictures of Anna Kate at 3 months. I can't believe she will be 4 months on Saturday. Look at her eyes!

Spot

We have a new cat. We picked her up two weeks ago. We have a mole problem in our back yard and we hope that she will get them. Jim named her Spot. She is an OUTSIDE cat. Jim and I aren't cat fans, but we dislike moles more. Actually, Spot is very sweet with the boys.We are trying to teach them that when she meows it is not a good sound, but prrrrr means she likes what they are doing. It is a hard concept to grasp especially when meow is so funny. So far we know that she can swim and that she doesn't like to hang by her tail.....

Friday Favorites

1. A Clean House
2. Having Friends come to visit
3. The Movie National Treasure
4. I love the beach, but I don't like the sand or the salt water.
5. Looking at old pictures
6. Talking to my mom
7. Getting gas for $3.66
8. Going on a date with Jim
9. Anna Kate is eating every 4 hours now
Drum Roll...
10. Realizing that Judd doesn't chew his raisins ....

Going Out: Covered Up but not Made Up

Last night Jim had a late meeting and I needed a few things from the store. I never go to Kroger, but they had Chicken on sale so I decided to pick up my needed items and some chicken breasts. Around 5:30 I packed the kids up and off we went. Did I mention that I had on a hat, t-shirt, jean capri pants, flip flops, and NO make up. You know that you have experienced those days that you hope you can make it in and out of the store without anyone seeing you, this was one of those days:-0 (Yes, I am sure you know where this is going)

Well, I get all of the babies in the cart and walk in Kroger. I was in the produce section discussing the proper way to behave in the grocery store with jake when, you guessed it I saw someone I knew..... We smile wave and I just chuckle thinking how hilarious I look with all of these children in Kroger. Several aisles later I see some one else I know, then some one keeps staring at me and I think maybe I know them too, then I see two more ladies that are picking up a few things before dinner. WOW! I am starting to think everyone was at Kroger. I love seeing people out, but I would prefer having looked a little more presentable.:-)

As a mother of three children ages three and under, make up and hair don't always make it to the top of the list everyday (most days). I can't promise that I will be made up, but I do believe that God desires for us to be covered up. I believe that modesty should be a desire of all women and that mommies and teenage girls need to honor the Lord in the way we dress. Summer is always hard especially when it is 106 degrees, but just like I used to tell my high school girls on youth retreats, if it isn't for sale then you shouldn't be advertising it.

Watermelon Fun

Last week some one in our church gave us two watermelons. I cut them up and then I let the boys eat the rest on the front porch. They had so much fun. We all LOVE watermelon! We have several watermelon plants in the back yard. They are finally growing two watermelons. I will post pictures of the vines soon. They are huge.






Anna Kate didn't want to try watermelon this year:-) Maybe next!

Thanks to all my readers

I enjoyed reading your comments and we beat my old record. :=)
Have a great weekend.

Friday Favorites on Saturday

1. i LOVE my church
2. Our Unite Devotions
3. Summertime. I love the extended days and countless hours outside.
4. Reading Karen Kingbury books
5. Taking a nap
6. A glass of sweet tea from McAllisters or McDonalds
7. Taking a walk with my family
8. When God answers prayers
9. Hearing the silence of a sleeping house
10. The boys sleeping until 7:30 a.m.

Are you a Lurker???

Calling All Lurkers!!!

I was reading someone's blog the other day and came across this idea. I enjoy lurking! I like to visit sites that are linked to my friends blogs, but then of course I sometimes click on links that are linked on there and so on. It can be a never ending maze.

I'm just wondering if anyone out there that has never posted on my blog (that I may or may not know personally), but frequents my blog to catch up on my life would be willing to post a comment below. I would love for you to make yourself known :)

I'm interested to see who you are!!!

Let's see if we can beat my highest number of comments. We must get 17 in order to beat the 16 comments I received when Anna Kate was born.

Friday Favorites

1. Spending a week in Georgia and visiting family
2. Hearing Jake use words in funny ways (i.e. Mommy, you regot (forgot) to get me a Band-aid.
Daddy, will you speaked it up I can’t hear. Judd steer (turn) the top of the bottle this way.)
3. Seeing Anna Kate smile every time she hears my voice.
4. Jake playing with all of his cousins at the lake this week.
5. Judd's face every time his sees our new cat.
6. Sleep (I haven't had much lately, but it is still one of my favorite things.)
7. Reading the Bible and a verse just jumps off of the page speaking to me.
8. Having conversations with my mom about the Bible and what God is teaching her. (By the way, she was saved May 18. That is another blog entry for another time.)
9. Sharing in a friends delight when she finds out she is pregnant for the third time. You know who you are. wink! wink!
10. When our children go to bed without making a fuss. ahhhhh! quiet!

ABC's of Me

A is for age: 
 29
B is for burger of choice: Jalapeno 
Cheeseburger
C is for what kind of car you drive:
 2006 Trailblazer EXT.
D is for your dog’s name: Skte - 5 year old black lab
E is for essential item you use everyday: 
Diapers- I have two children in diapers.
F is for favorite TV show at the moment:
 Jon and Kate Plus Eight
G is for favorite game:
 Gin Rummy- I always win!
H is for Hometown:
 Warner Robins, Georgia
I is for instruments you play: 
None
J is for favorite juice: I don’t drink juice. If I must then I want OJ with some pulp.
K is for who is the last person you showed kindness: 
I would like to think my family
L is for last restaurant you ate at?
 On the Border
M is for your favorite meal:
 Alice Springs Chicken from Outback.
N is for Number of Piercings:
4 - two in each ear.
O is for overnight hospital stays:
 3 Times. One for each baby
P is for people you were with today:
 Jim, Jake, Judd, and Anna Kate
Q is for what you do with your quiet time:
 Blog, read the Bible and Karen Kingsbury, watch TV, Nap
R is for biggest regret:
S is for status:
 Married to my best friend and who I respect the most in this world.
T is for time you woke up today:
 7:00
U is for what you consider unique: 
Jim is able to make many animal noises that sound so real, which the boys really love.
V is for vegetable you love: 
Green beans, carrots, Sweet Potatoes, and broccoli.
W is for worst habit: Having a messy car.
X is for x-rays you’ve had: 
None EDIT: Jim informed me that I have had many X-rays on my teeth. I forget about those.
Y is for yummy food you ate today: 
Sweet Potato
Z is for zoo visits:
 We went to the Atlanta and Memphis Zoo in May. It was so fun, but exhausting with three little ones.

Friday's Favorites

Top Ten Favorites

1. Hearing my children laugh
   
2. Holding my babies hands
   
3. Jim’s Dimples
   
4. Dt. Mountain Dew, which I only get when I am not pregnant or nursing. Needless to say it has been awhile.
   
5. Pedicures
   
6. Hearing I love you from my man
7. Hearing I love you from my children
8. Talking on the phone to friends that encourage and make you laugh
9. Laughing until you cry
   
10. Driving through Tennessee and seeing a Welcome to Georgia sign. When we see the sign we know that we are just a few hours away from family.

Standards

Tonight I was in the attic and I came across the standards that I wrote in July of 01 for the man I was going to marry. I had dated a couple of guys since becoming a Christian and I felt that I really didn't have any standards for the man God wanted me to marry. Over the course of several weeks, I prayed and this is the list of standards that I felt encompassed the man that God wanted me to marry. I knew that I would never marry a man unless he met all 31 standards without me telling him the standards. I had come to a point in my life where I was tired of mediocre and I wanted God's best and I was willing to wait forever. Jim and I met October of 01 and the rest is history......
1. Growing Christian (Loves the Lord more than He loves Me)
2. Spiritual Leader/Willing and Wanting to Teach Me
3. Gentleman
4. Has a High Respect for His Sisters in Christ
5. Believes All of the Bible
a. 2 Corinthians 5:17-19
b. Isaiah 5:17-19
6. Is able to communicate (talk and listen)
7. My Best Friend
8. Prays with me/for me
9. Will never ask me to compromise myself/standards/purity/always asks permission
10. Patient
11. Slow to anger
12. Country yet conservative (adventurous yet romantic)
13. Likes to travel
14. Has a sense of humor
15. Loves His Family
16. Adores Me
17. Wants lots of Children
18. Works Hard
19. Accepts my faults
20. Gracefully and truthfully corrects my faults
21. Bring flowers/sends cards
22. Dedicated to his ministry
23. Likes working with young people
24. Accepts/Loves/Prays for my family
25. Wants me to be a “homemaker”
26. A servants heart
27. Looking for a helper, soul mate, His “Eve”
28. Has prepared to be the person He wants to marry
29. Plays guitar/sings/worships through music
30. Encourages me
31. Not afraid to share his love for me with other people (I shouldn’t be a secret)

Dear Lord,
May I be all that I am committed to desire, and may I never settle for anything less than your best. May I fulfill all of theses standards. May I prepare to be the person I want to marry. Lord, help me to see only with your eyes, think only with your mind, and love only with your heart. I have given you my heart to do with what you please. May I never have it back until the appointed divine time. Lord, help me to remain pure in character and stay focused on YOU. Make me a woman of excellence in Your time. No matter what it takes!! I love you, thank you!!!
Because You Loved Me First,
Stephanie

A New Perdue

No, I am not having another one, yet!
Jim's brother and wife, Dan and Jessica, welcomed a new baby girl into the family June 18 at 7:26 PM. She was 6lb 11 oz and 19 in. Her name is Rabun Ophie. We are so excited to have another little girl. Congratulations Dan and Jessica we can't wait to meet her.

18 months

My baby boy, Judd, turned 18 months on Saturday. This was an emotional day for me. It is hard to believe that he is growing so fast. He brings so much joy to our lives.


Juddman, this is for you

You are hilarious and so much fun. You always wake up with a smile. You smile lights up a room and your laughter is contagious. It is fun as you intentionally do things to make us laugh. Lately, you have been “singing” your favorite songs, Washed in the blood and I’ll Fly Away, at the table while we are eating. Most people wouldn’t recognize I’ll Ba Ba Ba as I’ll Fly Away, but you are doing an amazing job. Your dad and I enjoy watching you play independently especially with cars and Jake’s trains, but still your favorite “toy” is our phone.

I think we should name you little Spiderman, you are climbing on everything Every time I turn around you are climbing on the couch to get the phone, climbing in your chair to tell us you are hungry, climbing up the end table in order to jump on the big chair, and now you climb into the bath tub at random times because you would like to play in the water.

It is hard to believe but you have gone potty a couple of times which is very exciting. You just clap and wave bye-bye as the toilet flushes. I am sure this is all pure luck based on good timing, but still.

You love to do everything Jake does. Brush your teeth standing next to Jake on the stool is one of your favorite activities. Riding Jake’s tractor, reading books like him, sitting with Jake on the couch and playing in his room are more ways your try to be like Jake.

I enjoy watching you kiss Anna Kate and try to put her pacifier in her mouth when she is crying. You are already spoiling and protecting her when you aren’t trying to sit on or tickle her.

You are fearless especially in the pool swimming. We put a lifejacket and swimmies on you while you are in the pool and you LOVE the freedom to swim around. You are quick to jump off of the diving board to daddy. You will come to the edge and count holding up one finger, 3free, 3free, 3free and then jump.

Whenever we mention the word “book” you run to get your Little People flap books, touch and feel pony books, or your Bible then stand in front of us and back into our laps so that we will read to you. It is so precious! Currently you have three signs and 20 words that you use regularly, although many are animal noises your verbal skills are increasing everyday.

You are QUICK to run from mommy and daddy if you know that you are going to be disciplined. You usually run with a concerned look on your face, but other times you laugh hoping we will do the same.

This week will be another milestone. We are taking away your pacifier. You only get it when you sleep, but you LOVE it. This was the hardest transition for Jake, even harder than potty training, so I am expecting a long week with little sleep.

Lastly, we are taking you to an allergist and an ENT in a few weeks. You have reoccurring ear infections and it is time to figure out the cause and solution. We have been praying and will continue to pray that your little ears will stop getting infected, but we need to take steps so that we can stop giving you antibiotics every month.

I love you, Judson Hunter and I wish I could hold on to this precious time. . and that you would stay this age forever! I know that you will continue to grow and we pray that you will be the man God wants you to be. Our prayer for you has always been to love Him with all of your heart and live for Him without regrets

Happy Father's Day

Happy Father’s Day to the love of my life!
I am married to one of the best dad’s in the whole world. He loves his family and he loves being a dad. He truly enjoys every minute. He sings silly songs and has silly nicknames for the kids that make them laugh. Most importantly, he loves his boys and wants to see them love Jesus more than anything else.

Jim, thank you for your faith and how important it is to you to share it with me and the kids. Thank you for loving us in so many ways. Thank you for coming home everyday always ready to play “dead gorilla ,“roll them up”, have devotions with our children, or just enjoy a nice afternoon in the water. Thank you….

Yes, we did get Jim a tie this year, BUT he also got two suits and a shirt. He wore one to church today and I must say that he is a fine looking man! **we took pictures, but they didn't look so hot***


Happy Father’s Day to my Dad
Thank you for always loving me, your princess. Thanks for being such a great listener. I have always been able to talk to you and I always knew that you would lend an ear whenever I needed to talk. You have always worked so hard to give me everything I need and just about everything I wanted. Bad thing or not, I was spoiled. At least I recognize it, right? Thanks for the past three years. I am so glad that you are apart of our life. My boys love Papa Wayne.

Happy Father’s Day to Benny (a.k.a Mr. Brown)
Thanks for all of you love, support, and encouragement through the years. You are a great step-dad and I am thankful you are in my life. Thank you for your advice and your willingness to serve others. Thank you for investing my family. We love you, Sweet Papa.

Happy Father’s Day to Mr. Sonny
Thank you for your son. I want to say thank you for the teaching him to be a godly man, to love his wife and family, to work hard, and most of all thanks for teaching him to love Jesus. Thank you for loving my children and being such a great Big Buddy.

Awww! Isn't she cute.......Oh no!

At my 20 week ultrasound we saw sweet Anna Kate doing this:

If you can't tell what she is doing take a good look at this picture:


I have been waiting for 2 months to see if Anna Kate would really live up to her ultrasound pictures. Well, this morning I woke up and I saw my precious little girl sucking away. I snapped a quick picture because it was cute and I wanted a memory, but she will be sleeping with mittens on from this point forward. I don't want a thumb sucker. I know many of you think "no big deal", but it is a big deal to me. I was a thumb sucker and I don't want to go through what my parents went through.

The Many Faces of Anna Kate

I can't believe Anna Kate is two months old today. She is growing to fast. I am trying to cherish every single moment, but the days continue to come and go so much more quickly than I remember with the boys. My life is so busy with three little ones, but I know that very soon I will wake up missing these chaotic days and wanting them back.

These are the many faces of Anna Kate...

Bottles

I wanted to give you some information that I have been looking at the past few days. You may already know all of this but if not I just wanted to inform you.

I read this website the other day and on May 29 they were discussing BPA free bottles. Apparently, the concern with BPA (bisphenol-A) in the plastics used in many bottles and sippy cups. I returned my bottles at Babies R Us this morning and bought Dr. Browns 3 Pack Polypropylene Bottles - 8 Oz. They return them without any questions asked. Be sure to call before going. They are selling them as fast as they get them in.

I have used Dr. Brown's bottles for both of the boys and I love them. Dr. Brown's supposedly has the highest levels of BPA leaching when heated. I don't heat them when I use formula, but with breast milk you have to heat them and that is when the leaching supposedly takes place. "According to Babies R Us website - they are transitioning to BPA only products by the end of 2008! You can do a quick google search to learn more about the dangers of BPA. For a list of bottles that do NOT contain BPA, check this out. Most mainstream bottles (Avent and Dr. Browns) DO contain BPA."

An Awesome Prayer

Sunday at church Anna Kate received a precious gift. It was a Raggedy Ann doll. I haven't seen one of those in years. It is hard to believe I have a girl and she has a doll.

When I opened the card there was a heart-shaped piece of paper inside with a note to Anna Kate. This is what it said:

Anna Katherine,
Sweet Baby girl...
I pray that from the beginning you will have a heart that is tender toward God; a heart that beats to please Him. That early on your hands won't hesitate to lift toward heaven in praise and worship of God. And as you grow up, that they will be used to reach out and comfort those who are hurting and help those in need. May the first step you take be one of many on the path that God has planned and laid out before you. And ultimately, may your countenance reflect a young lady who has come to know and love her Savior, Jesus Christ LORD. God bless and keep you.

Jim and I both had tears in our eyes. What a blessing to know that people love and care about our children enough to pray this kind of pray for them. We are humbled.

God is Here!!!

Update on Anna Kate

Anna Kate is 7 weeks old and she is so precious. She is sleeping and eating well. We made it through the first growth spurt and I am still nursing. Yippie! For those of you that know me, the sixth week has always been the beginning of the end of my nursing experiences.

With all the sleepless nights and tiring days, I quickly begin to anticipate the first smiles. Each smile melts my heart. Anna Kate started smiling about two weeks ago, but this is the first time we were able to capture them with the camera. I just thought I would share a few of Anna Kate's smiles. Hopefully, they will bring a smile to your face.